Marrying God's Choice: The Complete Christian Courtship & Marriage Guide (100 Questions to Ask Before You Say Yes)

The wedding lasts one day. The marriage lasts the rest of your life.

Yet most people spend nine months planning the ceremony and less than nine hours honestly examining the person.

They will research a phone for three weeks. Then they will marry someone whose attitude to money they have never asked about, whose family they have met twice, and whose behaviour under real pressure they have never seen.

This 61-page guide makes sure that is not you.

What you will learn:

✅ The 5 questions to settle before you even start looking

✅ How to know God's will without confusion — and why "God told me about you" is a warning, not a confirmation

✅ Your non-negotiables vs. your preferences (most people get this dangerously backwards)

✅ The red flags you must never pray away — including the ones churches often mistake for love

✅ The 12 conversations you MUST have before engagement

✅ How to guard your purity without living in shame

✅ How to involve your parents and pastor without handing them your decision

✅ Long-distance and online relationships — and how to spot a romance scam before it costs you

✅ How to end a courtship well, if you must

✅ Planning a wedding you can actually afford — no debt

✅ Surviving the first year (nobody warns you it is the hardest)

✅ Money, conflict, in-laws, intimacy and children — handled honestly

✅ What to do when your marriage gets hard

Plus 7 practical worksheets:

🎁 100 Questions to Ask Before You Say Yes — the complete list, organised by topic

🎁 Your Non-Negotiables Worksheet

🎁 The Red Flag Checklist — print it, tick it, show it to someone you trust

🎁 Pre-Marital Counselling Topic Guide (take this to your pastor)

🎁 Debt-Free Wedding Planner

🎁 30-Day Couple Prayer & Scripture Plan

🎁 The First-Year Check-In

Who this is for:

Singles who want to marry well and are tired of vague advice. Courting couples who suspect they are not asking the right questions. Engaged couples who have planned a wedding but not a marriage. Newlyweds in the difficult first year. Parents, pastors and mentors who need something solid to put in a young person's hand.

A warning: this book will tell you some uncomfortable things. That attraction is not enough. That some courtships should end. That a wedding you cannot afford is not faith. If you want a book that only says what you hoped to hear, this is not it.

Because a broken engagement heals in months. A wrong marriage costs decades — and your children pay part of the bill.

Instant download. Read on your phone, tablet or laptop.

Take a few hours now, or spend years wishing you had. Download it today.