Money & marriage

🔒 Money & Marriage: The Complete Guide to Financial Harmony Before and After "I Do"

The book every engaged or married Nigerian couple wishes someone had given them before the wedding.

Money is the #1 thing couples fight about — not because they don't love each other, but because nobody ever taught them how to talk about it.

You've seen it happen. A couple that was fine before marriage suddenly can't agree on:

Who pays for what

How much goes to "your side" vs "my side" of the family

Whether joint accounts mean trust or losing control

Why one of you saves everything and the other spends everything

The debt nobody mentioned before the wedding

If any of this sounds familiar, this guide was written for you.

What's Inside (41 Pages):

✅ The real reason money fights aren't actually about money

✅ How to talk to your partner about finances without it turning into a fight

✅ A Nigerian-specific chapter on bride price, wedding costs & starting marriage debt-free

✅ How to set boundaries with family financial demands — without guilt, without disrespect

✅ Scripts you can literally copy: what to say when your mum calls asking for money

✅ 5 real-life composite case studies of couples who fixed exactly what you're going through

✅ The Money & Marriage Compatibility Assessment (the same 20-question quiz relationship coaches charge for)

✅ 100 conversation-starter questions to ask your partner

✅ A monthly "Money Date" template + goal-setting worksheets you'll use for years

Who This Is For:

Engaged couples who want to start marriage aligned, not blindsided

Married couples tired of the same recurring money arguments

Anyone supporting family financially and drowning in unspoken pressure

Diaspora couples balancing "back home" obligations with their new household.

Why This, Why Now?

You'll spend more on one wedding aso-ebi than this guide costs — and this is the thing that actually protects the marriage after the wedding is over

.📥 Instant download after payment. Read on your phone, tablet, or print it out and go through it together.