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The Starting Strong Program
Pre-Marital Coaching — Powered by the SYMBIS Framework
You have found the person you want to spend your life with. Now comes the most important question: are you truly prepared for marriage — not just the wedding?
Most couples invest months planning the ceremony and almost nothing preparing for the covenant. This program flips that. In six powerful sessions, you will build the communication skills, emotional intelligence, and shared vision you need to start your marriage with clarity, confidence, and purpose.
This program is designed for:
• Engaged couples preparing for their wedding and wanting more than just a ceremony — they want a strong marriage.
• Seriously dating couples exploring whether they are truly compatible and ready for a lifetime commitment.
• Couples referred by pastors or counsellors who want structured, professional pre-marital preparation.
Noruwa Edokpolo is a seasoned marriage counsellor, pastor, certified SYMBIS facilitator, marriage mentor, and author of Naked: The Mystery of Openness in Marriage. With over 25 years of experience and having coached 200+ couples, he brings deep biblical wisdom and practical expertise to every session.
This program is built on the world-renowned SYMBIS (Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts) framework — a proven, research-based system that has helped thousands of couples worldwide begin marriage with insight, intentionality, and the right tools.
Through 6 guided sessions, you will:
• Discover your individual marriage mindsets and emotional styles — understand how your upbringing, personality, and expectations shape how you approach love.
• Uncover strengths and potential friction points early on — before they become real problems in your marriage.
• Learn effective communication and conflict-resolution skills — so you can disagree without damaging your relationship.
• Explore your expectations around money, family, intimacy, and roles — the conversations most couples avoid but every marriage needs.
• Develop a shared vision for your future together — a covenant roadmap for your first year and beyond.
As part of this program, you have the option to complete the SYMBIS Couples Compatibility Profile — a comprehensive online assessment that gives you and your partner deep insight into your relationship dynamics.
The assessment reveals:
• Your individual love styles and how they interact
• Your communication strengths and blind spots
• How you each handle conflict, stress, and change
• Your financial personalities and potential money conflicts
• Your shared values, spiritual alignment, and life goals
Your coach will walk you through the results in a personalised debrief session, turning the data into actionable conversations and growth areas for your relationship.
• Certified SYMBIS Facilitator: Your coach is trained and certified in the world’s leading pre-marital assessment system.
• Personalised, Not Generic: Every session is tailored to your unique story, challenges, and goals as a couple.
• Faith-Based & Practical: Grounded in biblical principles that honour God’s design for marriage, with tools you can use immediately.
• Proven Results: Couples who complete pre-marital coaching report higher satisfaction and stronger communication in their first years of marriage.
• Deep Investment in You: This is not a tick-box exercise. Your coach is genuinely committed to your success as a couple.
Duration
60 minutes per session
Number of Sessions
6 sessions over a maximum of 3 months
Format
Secure voice/video calls (Zoom or phone)
Scheduling
Flexible — we work around your availability
Item
Price
Starting Strong Program (6 sessions)
₦300,000
SYMBIS Couples Compatibility Assessment
₦150,000
NOTE
The SYMBIS Assessment is optional but highly recommended. It provides a personalised couples compatibility profile that significantly deepens the coaching experience.
1. Select your preferred option (Coaching Program and/or Assessment).
2. Complete the purchase through our secure Selar store.
3. After payment, you will receive an email with a link to schedule your sessions.
YOUR MARRIAGE DESERVES THE BEST START POSSIBLE
Take the intentional step today to build not just for the wedding day, but for a lifetime of joy, purpose, and covenant love.
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