Bank or Boyfriend? A 7-Day Method to Know If He Loves You or Your Money and What to Do Next
Does it ever cross your mind — is he building a future with me, or just comfortable inside one I'm paying for?
If you've been quietly covering rent, data, transport, or "just this once" requests and never quite getting a straight answer about when it'll be repaid, this guide gives you something better than another opinion from a friend: a structured, 7-day way to find out for certain.
Inside, you'll get 46 pages covering:
- The Relationship Financial Audit Scorecard — a 10-question tool that turns a vague feeling into a specific number
- The 7-Day Reflection Journal — one page a day to track the pattern as it actually happens, not from memory
- The Conversation Script — exact words for the one conversation that matters, including two different ways to close it
- Guilt-Trip Comebacks — six calm, ready-made responses for common pushback lines
- The Red Flag Checklist — four categories to see the whole pattern clearly, in one place
- The Decision Matrix — a structured way to weigh reset, pause, or exit — instead of deciding from a single hard night
- Your 7-Day Action Plan — everything above, laid out as one simple week you can actually follow
- A Financial Safety Overview — practical, real steps if you decide to leave
Plus two free bonuses:
- Healthy Relationship Boundaries Checklist
- Money Conversation Starter Pack
You don't need to fight, spy, beg, or keep suffering in silence. You need structure, evidence, and the courage to stop ignoring what your peace has been telling you.
Format: Instant PDF download
Price: $4.97 / 83.50 ZAR
This guide is for educational and reflective purposes and isn't a substitute for professional financial, legal, or mental health advice.