Sex as God Intended (What they have not told you about sex in the church)

The problem of the majority of today's couples, especially Christians, when it comes to having fantastic and extraordinary sex, is that they approach sex with either a traditional or uninformed mindset. Unfortunately, many of them assume they understand how to have sex, yet their sexual experiences, in reality, show that they are not knowledgeable enough about this God-given gift to couples. Invariably, this is taking its toll on a lot of Christian homes and marriages today. It's quite disturbing that this emotional void has led to a lot of broken homes, dysfunctional families, extramarital affairs, and immoral self-indulgence like masturbation and pornographic tendencies even among the married.

In the words of Dr. H. Norman Wright, "Sex is a learned expertise," yet many Christian couples are not even aware of this crucial point in building a wholesome sexual life. That is why they seem not to be getting the best out of their sex life even though God made sex to be enjoyed within the confines of marriage. Of course, most of them lack the skills and understanding that guarantee wholesome sexuality.

Undoubtedly, a significant number of Christian couples encounter challenges in fully embracing and enjoying sex, often due to either a lack of knowledge on how to enhance it with excitement and fulfilment or due to entrenched conventional beliefs about sexual intercourse that hinder the development of an exceptional sexual life.

Regrettably, many couples find themselves coveting pornographic actors who partake in illicit, demon-influenced, and destructive sex, believing them to hold the key to great sexual experiences. However, it is crucial to realise that pornographic actors do not engage in sex for personal enjoyment or emotional connections; rather, it is a professional endeavour driven by financial incentives. Therefore, they are primarily performers in a scripted narrative, unlike genuinely intimate couples or soulmates who share a multifaceted bond transcending mere sexual and romantic aspects within marriage.

Without any controversy, sexual intimacy is a vital key to marital sanity. This is perhaps why most of the marital conflicts that go on between a couple have poor sex lives at the root of them.

Furthermore, this book is intended for all Christian couples who have struggled with a monotonous and unsatisfying sex life throughout their years of marital journey until discovering this work. This book combines biblical principles, real-life examples, and expert advice to empower couples toward emotional, spiritual, and physical wholeness, which is able to strengthen their conjugal bond.

Sex is pleasurable. In fact, it is the most pleasurable single act in life and on earth. And God put it in marriage for extraordinary enjoyment, not just as a way to procreate.