Before You Say "I Do" — Essential Conversations Every Engaged Couple Needs to Have Before Marriage

Most couples spend months planning the wedding — outfits, caterers, the perfect venue — and almost no time planning the actual marriage.

Before You Say "I Do" closes that gap. It's a guided workbook covering the 8 conversations every engaged couple needs to have before the wedding, not after it:

🌱 Life Beliefs & Expectations

⚖️ Values

💬 Communication

💰 Money

🏠 Family & In-Laws

🚀 Career, Location & Calling

🔒 Non-Negotiables & Deal-Breakers

🕊️ Conflict & Reconnection

Each chapter includes guided questions, real-life scenarios with word-for-word scripts for hard conversations, a fillable companion template, and a prayer.

Comes with a Bonus Kit — Weekly Check-In template: This bonus section gives you two tools to use throughout your entire engagement and into your first year of marriage.

Go through one chapter a week — with your partner, your pastor, or a mentor couple. Don't rush it. The goal isn't to finish the book. It's to build the marriage.

📥 Instant digital download (PDF) — read on any device or print the templates.