Are you Settling? The Vital Signs of Unhealthy Relationships & How To Choose God's Best

“I wish I had read these words earlier. I would have saved myself a lot of time.”

Those were the words of the editor of this book after she read through it. And honestly, that statement captures the heart of this book.

If choosing God’s best for your life—rather than settling—is important to you, then this book is your compass.

Are You Settling? is a practical, faith-based guide designed to help you see clearly and choose wisely in your relationships.

Inside this book, you’ll learn how to:

• Recognise the vital signs of unhealthy relationships
• Understand why people settle
• Break free from unhealthy patterns
• Build clarity, confidence, and conviction in your choices
• Position yourself to choose God’s best

Whether you are single, dating, or in a relationship, this book will help you move from confusion to clarity, and from uncertainty to intentionality.

Many people don’t set out to settle.

They drift into it.

Through pressure.

Through fear.

Through past experiences.

Through unclear identity.

This book helps you interrupt that cycle.

You’ll discover:

• How to identify when something is “off”—even if you can’t explain it
• The hidden factors shaping your relationship decisions
• Why walking away is not always enough (and what to do instead)
• Practical steps to stop settling - for good

This book was birthed from a powerful teaching delivered by Mr. Sho - a certified family systems engineering practitioner.

When you download this book, you’ll also get access to a companion video teaching by Mr. Sho, where he walks through these principles in a more practical and engaging way.

What are you waiting for? 😊