THE INCONSISTENCY ILLUSION

The Inconsistency Illusion

-Why the Chemistry That Hooks You Is Rarely the Love That Holds You 

by Ben Idoko

You call it chemistry.  

The racing heart. The intensity. The hot-and-cold obsession that feels like destiny.

But deep down, you know something is wrong.

This book reveals the uncomfortable truth:  

You’re not addicted to *them*.  

You’re addicted to the **uncertainty**.

In *The Inconsistency Illusion*, Ben Idoko — a researcher specializing in attachment dynamics and human intimacy — explains why you keep choosing partners who excite you but never truly hold you.

You’ll discover:

- Why inconsistency is more addictive than consistent love

- How your nervous system confuses anxiety for passion

- The hidden childhood blueprint running your dating life

- How to rewire your brain so safe, secure love finally feels deeply exciting

This is not another shallow relationship book filled with affirmations.

This is a sophisticated psychological guide with practical **Alchemy Practices** that actually create lasting change — from understanding your attachment style to building chemistry that compounds instead of crashes.

**If you’ve ever:**

- Gone back to someone you knew was wrong for you

- Felt bored by someone genuinely good

- Confused emotional chaos for depth

…then this book was written for you.

The illusion ends here.

Launch Price: ₦12,000

Multi-currency friendly.