LOVE SCAN - Questions to Ask Before 'I Do'

Title: LOVE SCAN: Questions to Ask Before 'I Do'

Author: Eric Richson Darko

Are you entering relationships with your eyes closed and your heart wide open, only to risk waking up years later with a broken heart and painful regrets? We live in a culture of floating desires and unverified assumptions, yet a lifelong union requires data, truth, and rigorous evaluation rather than mere "vibes" and physical attraction. In life, common sense and fleeting romance alone will leave you vulnerable; true self-awareness, deep partner scanning, and scriptural wisdom are what take you where lasting covenants go.

Love Scan is your ultimate guide to breaking the cycle of emotional blindness and trial-and-error dating. It dismantles the illusion of effortless compatibility, teaching you how to transition from superficial romance to a structured, intentional pre-marital audit. Inside, you will uncover:

• Part I (The Internal Scan): Rigorous self-examination questions covering character audits, personal suitability, convictions, personal growth, clarity of desire, endurance, boundary management, standards, risk assessment, singleness and purpose, reputation, and transparency.
• Part II (The Relational Scan): Deep-dive partner evaluations exploring spiritual discernment, intellectual capacity, purpose and vision, skillset and value creation, social capital, mentorship, worldview, selection criteria, role definition, motivation, expectations, history, financial stewardship, and conflict resolution.
• Part III (The Critical Scan): Direct answers to dangerous and explosive relationship questions, including body counts and past trauma, loyalty conflicts, emotional extremism, unrealistic comparisons, transactional thinking, and the comparison virus.
• A Complete Survival Kit: Packed with a cultural/theological glossary, a guide on how to use the book for individuals, couples, small groups, and pastors, plus curated recommended reading resources.

A healthy marriage is not a lucky accident; it is a deliberate construction built through wide-eyed awakening. Don't wait until poor preparation and unverified character lead you into avoidable pain and broken structures.

Secure your copy today, embrace the blueprint of the deep scan, and learn how to build a rock-solid foundation before you say "I do".