"LOVE, LUST, AND EVERYTHING IN-BETWEEN: A Comprehensive and Graphical Guide to Lovers' Relationships, evergreen, satisfying, toes curling and exhilarating Sex"
A few men have lost interest in sex; while others never had an interest in sex, but either way- men's sexual hormone is more active than a woman. This is one reason why a widow or divorcee can stay for months and years without sex, but an average widower cannot.
An average woman's love language is affection and money, while an average man's love language is respect and sex.
A FEW REASONS WHY SOME PEOPLE CAN'T ENJOY SEX.
1) Victim of rape
2) Records of heartbreak
3) Product of broken and unhappy homes
4) Denominational teaching
5) Psychological perception
6) Female genital mutilation or circumcision.
1. VICTIM OF RAPE
Loretta is a beautiful curvy lady with a breast size of 38cm, waistline of 30cm, and Hip size of 44cm. Her attitude is excellent, and she is a homemaker. But guess what? She detests sex; she hates men and doesn't want anything to do with that gender.
A few years ago, George won her heart. How he won her heart is in-explainable, but he is one of the best that has ever happened to her. There is a problem at the moment, do you care to know? Whenever George tries to make love to Loretta, images and scenes of the past begins to re-play. She was made a woman in a gruesome way before the age of eight.
According to her, she has been to several healing houses, but the truth is- her partner isn't enjoying her in the other room. Loretta might never find pleasure in anything George does and, that is because she is yet to heal from the scene(s) that accompanied sexual molestation. The emotional and mental effect from rape affects both genders.
I say no to rape!
No to sexual molestation!!
Do you need a friend to talk to? Would you love to share your story anonymously? Then send a request to the email address on the last page.
2. RECORDS OF HEARTBREAK
Despite her good nature, she has never been lucky with men. Instead, they often leave her worse than they met her, and this is because those men are taking her weakness for granted.
Do you care to know her weakness?
She is a lover with OLD (Obsessive love disorder) When she loves, she loves for real, gets clingy and sometimes become dumb in love. Can you imagine she loaned Frank N100,000 three weeks after they began the whirlwind relationship? I am not judging her, but I wish she always used that money for other beneficial stuff than gifting or loaning 'so-called lovers. Just two weeks ago, she said-
'Love doctor; can love ever find me, and if it finds me, can I ever love again?'
Some heartbreak kills the yearning for sex and love.
3. PRODUCT OF BROKEN AND UNHAPPY HOMES
Nothing hurts a child like an unhappy home, nothing destabilizes mental ability like a broken home.
Kubura is a young and brilliant champ, but her academic performance began to dwindle three months after her parents divorced. To worsen the situation, Hajia Shukura, who is Kubura's mother, is an obnoxious illiterate.
Kubura hated her father for many reasons. A few are-
i. He never ceases to assault his wife, both sexually and emotionally. He hits her at every slight provocation.
ii. He has a master's degree holder in cheating and infidelity.
Do you know that Kubura is now married to Alhaji B, but she is always scared of being her playful and cheerful self for fear of the unknown? Her father's attitude affected her relationship with the opposite gender. The worst of all is she sees sex as sacred.
However, she has begun to see a few improvements after enjoying the therapeutic services at “Better life and wellness therapy.” Her healing process may be slow, but it's steady.
Psychological and emotional effects from broken homes affect both genders.
4. DENOMINATIONAL TEACHING
Let me tell you something;
I. Do you know that some teachings can make or mar your sex life?
ii. Do you know that your religious and doctrinal belief can make you love or detest sex?
iii. The lifestyle of your religious leaders who are married has a lot of impact on your sexual life.
Sister Blessing is the daughter of Elder and Deaconess Daniel, but one of the things Blessing noticed is; her parents never displayed affection. You hardly see them playing like friends. They always have this serious, religious, and professional attitude. This attitude also applies to her religious leaders, and she has concluded never to get married to a Pastor.
Let me gist you…
One fateful day, Blessing's mother decided to go romantic with Elder Daniel (her husband).
Guess what?
Elder Daniel cautioned her, saying- 'Sarah addressed Abraham as my Lord and not Sweetheart, Darling or Honey.' He noted that Deaconess Daniel is beginning to allow the world and the 22nd century to affect her obedience to the Holy Bible.
Hahaha
It's pathetic but also funny, though.
I don't know where most religious leaders got their doctrinal teachings, but the truth is-
Marriage is a holy union ordained from heaven, and sex between lawfully wedded couple is also a blessed intertwine ordained from heaven.
Sex on Sunday is as holy as sex on Friday or Wednesday. No day of the week is too sacred to make love with your spouse.
Do you also know that from my knowledge, no sexual style was outrightly recommended or condemned in the Holy Book? ~winks~
5. PSYCHOLOGICAL PERCEPTION
Do you know there are a few persons who naturally detest sex? According to personal research, ladies who hate sex are more than men who despise sex.
6. FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION OR CIRCUMCISION
It's the practice of partially cutting or entirely removing the external female genitalia, and also includes any other injury caused to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons. Circumcision is supposed to be performed on the male gender, but, unfortunately, genital mutilation was transferred to the female gender centuries ago.
The pitiful excuse is that they do not want their daughters to be promiscuous; therefore, they deactivated the clitoris. The practice of female genital mutilation is a form of violence against women and girls that have been around for more than a thousand years.
There are several reasons why people get married, and there are numerous reasons why spouses don’t enjoy sex.
1. In this book, you will be exposed to almost everything you need to know about your sexuality and that of your partner.
2. Do you know that not all sexual styles favors all penis types?
3. Also, there are some vaginal type that is excellent for some sex styles. Oh yes!! We have different types of vagina.
4. There are more than 40 sexual styles in this book, and it will interest you to know that each of these styles has their advantages and disadvantages. Each of these styles has the idea way of positioning.
5. There are numerous and healthy ways to make a one-minute man become a long-lasting man in bed. (You don't say!!🙈😄)
6. How often do you experience Orgasm during sexual activity, or you have never climaxed? I mean you really haven't had a toe-curling and hot sizzling sex with your partner?
The question I have for you is why do you want to get this book? In my most simplified sentence and response- this book is for you to become a better lover, increase sexual compatibility, heal from unresolved traumas, and to create an evergreen sexual activity with your partner.
Dear friend, stop the procrastination and get this book right away!!!
I'll see you at the centre page of the book. *winks*