Red Flags: Recognizing Warning Signs Before They Become Trauma

Many relationship wounds don’t start with marriage; they start with ignored warning signs.

Red Flags is a powerful guide designed to help you recognize unhealthy patterns early, before they turn into emotional damage or long-term trauma. Written by Dr. Oyindamola Okenla, a Christian counselor and mental health transformation coach, this book blends professional insight, real-life experience, and practical tools for prevention and healing.

Inside, you’ll learn how to identify psychological, emotional, behavioral, and social red flags, understand how personal history affects relationships, communicate more effectively, and make informed, confident decisions about your future.

This book is for anyone who wants clarity, discernment, and healthier relationships without shame or fear.

👥 WHO THIS BOOK IS FOR

• Singles and dating adults seeking clarity before commitment
• Engaged couples preparing for marriage
• Married individuals reassessing relationship health
• Survivors of emotionally unhealthy or abusive relationships
• Christian and faith-aligned readers seeking wisdom without denial
• Counselors, coaches, pastors, and support leaders
• Anyone who wants healthier, safer, more intentional relationships