Before We Begin
One unanswered conversation can change the entire direction of your marriage.
Not because you married the wrong person, but because you assumed you already knew them.
One of the most painful discoveries after the wedding day is realizing the conversation you’re arguing about in marriage is one you could have had before the wedding.
I have coached enough couples to know that some of the deepest marital wounds did not begin because somebody cheated or fell out of love.
They began because two good people assumed they understood each other enough.
Before you become husband and wife, I hope you have had these conversations?
• If one of us earns three times more than the other, how will we make financial decisions?
• What would have to happen before either of us would consider divorce?
• If we struggle to have children naturally, what options are we both genuinely comfortable with?
• How involved do we both expect our parents to be in our marriage?
• Is there anything from your past whether it’s pornography, addiction or hidden debt that could still affect our marriage if we don’t talk about it now?
You only get one chance to prepare for your marriage before you are married.
After the wedding the conversations you avoided do not disappear. They become the arguments you keep having.
That’s exactly why I created Before We Begin.
46 carefully designed conversations to help engaged couples uncover blind spots, align their expectations and prepare for marriage with clarity, not assumptions.
WHY I CREATED BEFORE WE BEGIN
Before my husband and I got married, we intentionally sat down and worked through conversations like these together.
Some of our answers matched perfectly. Others exposed assumptions neither of us realised we were carrying.
There were things we thought we already knew about each other until we actually stopped to ask.
I’m grateful we had those conversations before the wedding. Because marriage has a way of demanding answers to questions that dating allows you to postpone.
Years later, when I started coaching couples, I noticed something that broke my heart.
Many of the conflicts they were struggling with didn’t begin because they stopped loving each other. They began because nobody had helped them ask better questions before they got married.
I kept hearing the same kinds of stories.
“I didn’t know that’s how he saw money.”
“I thought we wanted the same things.”
“We never talked about that before the wedding.”
After hearing those stories over and over again, I knew I couldn’t keep those conversations to myself.
So I took the same framework my husband and I used before we got married, refined it through years of coaching singles and couples, and created Before We Begin.
Because I don’t want you to spend the first few years of your marriage recovering from conversations you could have had while you were still dating.
I want you to walk into marriage with your eyes open, your expectations aligned and your decisions grounded in truth.
These aren’t random questions from the internet. They’re conversations shaped by real marriages, strengthened through real coaching… and designed to help you make one of the biggest decisions of your life with clarity.
INSIDE BEFORE WE BEGIN
Inside this guide, you’ll work through 46 intentional conversations across 9 important areas of marriage, including:
✔ Money and financial expectations
✔ Family and in-laws
✔ Children and parenting
✔ Faith and values
✔ Conflict and communication
✔ Intimacy and affection
✔ Career, purpose and life goals
✔ Roles, responsibilities and expectations
✔ Vision for the future
These aren’t questions to test each other. They’re conversations that help you understand each other before marriage starts asking for answers.
ORDER TODAY AND YOU’LL ALSO RECEIVE AS BONUS…
The Before You Say “I Do” Masterclass Replay
A practical 90-minute teaching where I walk you through common mistakes engaged couples make before marriage and how to prepare with greater clarity and confidence.
This replay is currently included FREE when you purchase Before We Begin.
WHAT WILL CHANGE AFTER YOU COMPLETE BEFORE WE BEGIN?
I don’t expect you to agree on every answer before you get married. That isn’t the goal.
The goal is that neither of you walks into marriage surprised by conversations you could have had while you were still dating.
By the time you finish Before We Begin, you won’t just know more facts about each other. You’ll understand each other more deeply.
Together, you’ll…
✔ Discover where you’re genuinely aligned and where you need more honest conversations.
✔ Uncover expectations you didn’t even realise you were carrying into marriage.
✔ Learn how each of you thinks about money, family, conflict, intimacy, faith and the future you’re trying to build together.
✔ Replace assumptions with clarity so that you’re making one of the biggest decisions of your life with confidence.
✔ Build a stronger foundation for healthy communication before marriage begins making demands of both of you.
Because preparation isn’t about predicting every challenge. It’s about making sure you don’t walk blindly into challenges you could have seen coming.
When You Order Today, You’ll Also Receive…
The Before You Say “I Do” Masterclass Replay
One thing I’ve learned from coaching couples is this:
Some conversations don’t just need questions.
They need guidance.
That’s why I’ve included the replay of my 90-minute “Before You Say “I Do” Masterclass at no additional cost.
Inside, I’ll walk you through some of the biggest mistakes engaged couples make before marriage and show you how to prepare intentionally instead of assuming you’ll “figure it out later.”
Normally valued at ₦20,000.
You get it for free when you order today.
WHAT YOU’LL RECEIVE TODAY
✔ Before We Begin Digital Guide
✔ 46 intentional conversations across 9 essential areas of marriage
✔ FREE access to the Before You Say “I Do” Masterclass Replay
✔ Immediate digital access
✔ Lifetime access
What happens after purchase?
✔ You will be redirected to a page to input your name and email. Then you will get an email with Immediate access to the Before You Say I Do Masterclass Replay
✔ Immediate access to your digital Before We Begin Guide
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✔ Lifetime access
Your wedding lasts one day. Your marriage will ask questions for decades. Prepare for both.
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