BEFORE YOU SAY I DO
Deep down you don’t really want to marry him… But just don’t want to disappoint everyone or start over.
Everybody is excited.
Your family likes him.
Church people are already calling it your testimony.
Friends are asking for wedding colors.
And your age is whispering, “What if this is your last chance?”
Deep down, you already know this relationship is hurting you.
🚩He is emotionally unavailable when it matters.
🚩He twists every issue and makes you feel like the problem.
🚩He drains you financially and still acts entitled.
🚩He makes you question your feelings, your standards, even your sanity.
🚩You keep shrinking just to keep the peace.
Yet you are still there.
Not because it feels safe.
Not because it gives you peace.
But because the pressure is loud.
Family is asking when the wedding is.
Friends are posting bridal showers every weekend.
Social media keeps making it look like everyone is moving except you.
And age keeps whispering, “Women your age don’t get many chances.”
So fear starts dressing red flags as “better than nothing.”
This is exactly how many women enter painful marriages.
And this are testimonies from women that have read this book:
