BEFORE YOU SAY YES

You have prayed. You have fasted. You have made your list. But the question nobody is asking you, the one that matters most is this: Are you truly ready, not just to find love, but to sustain it?

Before You Say Yes is the resource the church has long needed but rarely produced. Written by Pastor John A. Oluwole. a pastor and relationship coach with over 25 years of experience, this is not a book about how to attract a partner. It is a Spirit-filled, practical guide to becoming one.

WHAT YOU GAIN INSIDE THESE PAGES

PART I 10 Teaching Chapters Emotional · Spiritual · Character · Financial · Communication · Boundaries · God's Timing · Choosing Wisely · Becoming Ready

PART II Full Self Assessment 75-point Emotional test · Spiritual Readiness · Character & Values · Practical Readiness · Relational Wisdom, Scored profiles across all 5 areas

PART III Tools to Move Forward Biblical case studies (Ruth, Joseph, Jacob) ·

50 Red Flags checklist · 5 Guided prayers · 90-Day action plan

SIX POWERFUL REASONS TO BUY THIS BOOK TODAY

1. STOP ENTERING RELATIONSHIPS UNPREPARED: No more emotional damage from premature commitment. This book equips you with an honest mirror before you move forward.
2. IDENTIFY HIDDEN WOUNDS BEFORE THEY SABOTAGE YOUR MARRIAGE: Discover and address emotional debt, patterns, and triggers that would otherwise surface — destructively — inside a covenant.
3. KNOW EXACTLY WHAT TO LOOK FOR (AND WHAT TO RUN FROM): The 50 Red Flags checklist and 'Red Flags vs. Growing Edges' framework give you a discernment toolkit no other resource provides.
4. BUILD THE FOUNDATIONS MARRIAGE REQUIRES: Spiritual depth, financial wisdom, communication skills, purity, covered chapter by chapter with real, actionable guidance.
5. REPLACE PRESSURE WITH GOD'S PEACE: For Nigerian singles at home and in the diaspora navigating family pressure and cultural timelines, this book gives you permission to trust God's process.
6. ARRIVE WHOLE, NOT JUST WILLING: The 90-day action plan transforms reading into transformation, so you don't just finish a book; you begin a new chapter of becoming