Engaged Couple Checklist

know where you are similar and where you are different.

The Engaged Couple Checklist is your essential pre-marital deep-dive, designed to remove ambiguity and build the confidence that your partnership is structurally sound. You and your partner will go through 18 critical, high-stakes topics to identify where you are Similar (S) and where you are Different (D0.

This is a systematic review of the issues that cause 90% of marital conflict:

Financial & Lifestyle: Compare views on money allocation for clothing and vacation , and attitudes about weight.

Power & Roles: Discuss and align on expected roles and views about power distribution in the family.

Intimacy & Connection: Dive into your thoughts on physical and verbal intimacy.

Future Vision: Confirm your level of ambition and ensure your life goals are aligned (are you both visionary?).

The goal is not to eliminate all differences, but to celebrate similarities first, then approach differences as opportunities for growth and compromise. Ensure your marital architecture can withstand any storm.