Never Audition For a Man Again

Your standards are not the problem.

Being modest, and marriage-minded is not a burden. It is a good position. The problem is not your standards; it is investing time in men who were never going to meet them. Screening harder and earlier, not lowering your bar, is the solution.

Many women are told:

Be nicer.

Show that you are marriage material.

Act submissive.

Don't work too hard.

Never buy a car or house.

...so that you can find a husband.

Let me give you something far more useful.

An honest, organised breakdown of the real reasons men don't commit, grouped by category, from a frank male perspective.

These are not the excuses men give you.

These are the TRUE reasons men do what they do.

Many of these will help you identify patterns in what's happening to you, not just what you might need to change.