GET THE RING: How to attract the one who will put the ring on it Prints copy

One of the areas in which many singles face problems is in the area of attracting and choosing a life partner. ‎The whole idea of finding one’s missing rib has sent a lot of singles on a passionate and sometimes, tortuous journey to finding the One. Today, many question the essence of marriage by the frequent divorce rates. This book gives hope to distressed hearts on the verge of giving up on finding their right partners. 

If there is one thing I want singles to know, it is that while waiting to meet their life partners, it is better to work on themselves, discover purpose and be relevant in society. When you chase relationships before purpose, there could be a catastrophe. 

It is also said that to attract the right partner, you must first become the right partner. This book takes you on a journey of self-evaluation, healing, clarity, and self-discovery before starting a relationship and while choosing a life partner. 

To understand and learn from this book, read the stories with an open mind. Note the necessary areas you need to work on and share this knowledge with your intended partner. Make it a point of duty for you to grow together in knowledge as you meld into a heart that beats as one. 

In spite of the fear of marriages, broken homes, and high divorce rates, I believe that marriage is God's idea and if we can tap into the essence and carve the right foundation, we will make it work.

BOOK REVIEWS

GET THE RING by Coach Nike Folagbade is a book that takes you through the journey of discovering and loving yourself enough to be fit to accept another person into your life. When I got to the third chapter of the book, it was amazing for me to learn how repositioning yourself as a person is important not just to you, but to the partner you are believing God to

receive.

The book will teach you how to work in yourself while you wait on God's best for your life. Be who you want to attract. Get this amazing book by Coach Nike and learn how to stand in the right space as you wait for love.  -Allison Hyacintho

Nike is that one author that stands by the right side when every other author is on the left. In her book GET THE RING, she forces you to see exactly where you are, where you are headed too, where you want to be, and most importantly how to get there. Unlike other authors, she relates with you and you are able to make that change instantaneously. If you are really serious about making that change and becoming that attractive partner, GET THE RING; is a MUST. It is a blessing. ---- Solomon

Sincerely, I have been scared of going into relationships because I had a horrible past that keeps reoccurring any time anyone asks me out. I find it difficult to love. I might probably crush but later, all gone after I read the book, I just had this heavy burden dropped off me. I have learnt on how to work basically on myself in all ramifications spiritually, academically, purpose, career-wise, and lots more. This is so inspiring. ---Josephine

In an engaging manner, Nike chronicles her sweet and bitter experiences in the winding maze of love, heartbreak, broken promises, and fulfilled expectations. Like a pro, she led me through her experiences, helping me discover myself in her frustrations, tears, joys, friendships, and decisions. Without trying too hard, she showed me how my thought patterns, background, and environmental influences had shaped my actions and produced my current results. And like a train weaving through a dark tunnel, her stories led me out to the burst of light on the other side screaming, “Yes! True love exists and getting the ring is not as difficult as I had thought.”

GET THE RING is for every young adult who is either yet to go into a love relationship, just beginning one, mourning the loss of one, or about to get out of one. It is a recommended manual for everyone who desires to have happy and fulfilling relationships with members of the opposite sex within and outside the perimeters of love, dating, and marriage.

It is a balm for hurting souls, an eye-opener for true seekers, a guide for the confused, and a light for those in the dark. At whatever stage of life, you are in, this is one book you need to read, especially if you want to avoid (or teach others to avoid) relationship pitfalls. Get your copy today. ---- Ini Akpan

Reading the book " GET THE RING by Nike Folagbade has been an eye-opener to me. Many truths about the mistakes I made in my previous relationship were unveiled. I saw myself in her

story as the patterns were very similar. I realized that because we had been friends before emotions set in, I had quickly thrown caution to the wind. I did not take time to process some things nor did I ask certain relevant questions. I felt love and friendship would cover up many lapses but things soon went wrong. My friends who had always placed me on a high pedestal were disappointed but now I know that am infallible. I have decided to begin to work at repositioning myself and with time I will heal completely. This book has been a blessing to me. N L

The book GET THE RING; is really one of the best out of the few books that I have read and loved out of the many I have read so far. The book really presented a picture of what is happening in my relationship life presently. I so much love the realities in the book and the practical life story aspect. God bless you so much, sis! I recommend the book to ladies out there, it is really a must-read!--- Ayoola Ajayi

Your book has greatly blessed me. I had always thought I was not worth loving, so I did not really relate with people much but after reading your book, it took me a while though but I am really glad I did. I have learnt to value myself more. I have learnt to differentiate between values and features. I have learnt to be with someone who would inspire me and push me to be the best. I have learnt to be with someone who has discovered his purpose and essence. I am learning to recreate and renew my mindset. In your book, you said YOUR MIND IS WHERE A LOT OF THOUGHTS, WILLPOWER, AND DESIRES COME FROM. POSITIONING IS THE FUNCTION OF THE OTHER AND INTERNAL PARTS OF LIFE. It really got to me because when it comes to relationships and friendships there are so many things that go through my mind based on my past experiences. I have also learnt to take care of myself; oh I love this part. The packaging is not small o. I have started cutting down friends who are not in line with my purpose and vision. I am also living intentionally and purposefully. There are so many things I have learnt I could go on and on. Time won’t permit me now. I would give u more feedback later. God bless you for this book and the lines will fall for you in pleasant places. You will continue to be an inspiration to me and I’m so looking forward to meeting you in person.---Abigal

If there is something I like about the book, GET THE RING, it is the fact that Nike Folagbade came through as authentic, sharing her personal story. I was also able to see where I erred in my previous relationships. You truly cannot make sense of your relationship unless you know yourself, and your partner and validate that both of you are headed in the same direction. Much more than knowing that you are headed in the same direction, Nike shares how you can engage in intelligent conversations that allow you get to know each other better.  I love the chapter on Practical Answers from Real People, Those answers are really practical. This book is loaded. If you must read any book on relationships, make sure to read this one. ---- Adewale Olaore