Introduction

A fisherman's desire to find fish

Once upon a time, there was a man who decided to take up fishing as a profession to provide for himself and his family.

So every day, he would get up early, go down to the bank of the river, get into his canoe, and set out in no particular direction in search of fish.

The first few days, he stayed out from dawn to dusk but did not catch anything.

Then one day, he headed out and ended up in a particular spot, and lo and behold, the place was teeming with them. He spent his entire day fishing there and was able to fill up the boat. Happily, he headed back with his prize.

The next day, instead of heading off in a random direction, he headed straight back to where he hit the jackpot.

But, of course, where else would he go? It would have been foolish for him to start paddling his boat to an unknown destination when he had found a spot where he would most likely daily get exactly what he wanted.

That's just common sense.

Now, the common-sense approach of the story I just told above is something you probably apply in your daily life to a lot of things that you want.

You think first about what you want and where you can get it, and when you find where you simply go back there when you have a need.

Unfortunately, this line of thinking doesn’t occur to most ladies when it comes to finding a husband, and this is quite understandable because we just expect or hope that it will just happen. And yes, at times it does work out that way; in fact, a lot of relationships work out that way.

But some do not. One of the reasons for this might be that, like the fisherman in the early part of the story, they have been paddling their canoes into areas where there are few or no men.

Now, faced with a choice between waiting to get lucky or taking steps to boost your chances of achieving what you desire, which will you choose?

If your answer is the second one, I suppose I will be seeing you in this guide shortly.