
Beauty can attract the eyes, but character must convince the heart.
In THE FALSEHOOD OF BEAUTY, Abraham Oseremen Jeffery challenges one of the greatest mistakes people make when choosing a spouse: allowing physical appearance to become more important than character, purpose, values, and spiritual compatibility.
A beautiful face does not automatically mean a beautiful heart.
Attraction may open the door, but character determines what happens after you enter.
๐น Why physical beauty alone is not enough for marriage
๐น The danger of choosing a spouse primarily because of appearance
๐น Why character is more valuable than attraction
๐น How to look beyond the face and examine the heart
๐น The difference between attraction and compatibility
๐น Why shared values and purpose matter in marriage
๐น How emotions and attraction can cloud your judgment
๐น What Scripture teaches about choosing a godly spouse
๐น Why you should examine character before covenant
๐น How to build a relationship that survives beyond physical appearance
Don't marry a face you admire and discover a character you cannot endure.
Beauty changes.
Bodies change.
Fashion changes.
Age changes.
But character, wisdom, integrity, and spiritual maturity can become the foundation of a lasting marriage.
โFavour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.โ โ Proverbs 31:30
Don't ask only:
โDo I find this person attractive?โ
Also ask:
โCan I trust this person's character?โ
โDo we share the same values?โ
โDo we have compatible purpose?โ
โHow does this person handle pressure?โ
โHow does this person treat people who cannot benefit them?โ
โIs this person walking with God?โ
A beautiful appearance can attract you to someone, but only godly character can help sustain a marriage.
Don't choose a spouse with your eyes alone.
Choose with wisdom, prayer, discernment, and understanding.
THE FALSEHOOD OF BEAUTY
By ABRAHAM OSEREMEN JEFFERY
Because the person you marry is more important than the face you fall in love with.
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