THE MOTHER NO ONE SAW: Understanding the hidden emotional struggles of pregnancy and motherhood, knowing when to seek help, and discovering that you don't have to walk through it alone.
THE MOTHER NO ONE SAW
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Understanding the hidden emotional struggles of pregnancy and motherhood, knowing when to seek help, and discovering that you don't have to walk through it alone.
SHE HAD THE BABY.
BUT SOMETHING WAS WRONG.
Nobody saw it.
Not because she wasn't loved.
Not because she didn't love her baby.
But because some battles don't show on the face.
Pregnancy and motherhood are often presented as beautiful seasons of joy. But what happens when the woman who is supposed to be celebrating suddenly feels overwhelmed, angry, disconnected, exhausted, frightened or simply unlike herself?
What happens when she has thoughts she is afraid to tell anyone?
And what if she doesn't even understand why she feels this way?
THIS IS WHERE THE SILENCE BEGINS.
She tells herself to be grateful.
Her family tells her to be strong.
People tell her, “You just had a baby. You should be happy.”
So she keeps going.
She smiles.
She mothers.
She performs.
But somewhere inside, the woman everyone knows is disappearing.
And sometimes, nobody notices until it is almost too late.
BUT WHAT IF THERE WAS ANOTHER WAY?
What if you could recognise the warning signs before the crisis?
What if a mother could understand that what she is experiencing may have a name?
What if husbands and families knew what to look for?
What if asking for help was seen as wisdom not weakness?
What if a woman could find her way back to herself?
THE MOTHER NO ONE SAW was born from a deeply personal journey through experiences that were difficult to understand, even while they were happening.
Francisca Chijioke opens the door to a part of motherhood many women never talk about and takes you on a journey of pain, confusion, faith, survival, discovery and restoration.
But there is much more to her story than what appears on the surface.
Some of the most powerful moments cannot be understood until you know what happened behind closed doors.
And that is where this book begins.
THE FIVE STEPS THAT CAN CHANGE THE WAY YOU RESPOND
KNOW.
Understand yourself and your normal.
NOTICE.
Recognise when something has changed.
RESEARCH.
Find reliable answers instead of suffering in confusion.
REACH.
Know when and how to ask for help.
RESTORE.
Begin the journey back to your mind, identity, relationships, hope and purpose.
THIS BOOK IS FOR THE WOMAN WHO HAS EVER THOUGHT:
“Something is wrong, but I don't know what.”
“Why don't I feel like myself anymore?”
“Why am I feeling this way?”
“Can someone please understand me?”
It is also for husbands, mothers, sisters, friends and families who love a woman but don't know how to recognise when she is silently struggling.
Because sometimes, everyone is watching the baby...
while nobody is watching the mother.
And sometimes, the woman who looks perfectly fine is fighting a battle nobody knows about.
Don't just ask, “How is the baby?”
Learn to ask, “How is the mother?”
THE MOTHER NO ONE SAW
A testimony of what can happen behind the smile and a guide to finding your way back.
KNOW. NOTICE. RESEARCH. REACH. RESTORE.