Virgin or Villain: A Pre-requisite for a Successful Life & Marriage?

Maybe cultural or religious, it has been made to seem as though the ultimate price to be paid to have a good man, a good marriage, or a good life is keeping your virginity. The hypocritical nature of this is not just that it is a lie but also that it is tilted to the disadvantage of one gender, i.e. the female folks are saddled with the prime responsibility of keeping themselves virgins for their husbands while the men aren't as much obliged to do the same - in other words, indirectly allowed to sleep around. This has left many ladies in intense misery, sorrow & regret. Even worse is rejection by family, and even the church. Adding to the pain are the stereotypes, labels, and discrimination by/from society at large.

Abba's Beloved, God does NOT hold anything against you. Your worth cannot be quantified by earthly measures because you're worth God's blood! Let the love of God envelope you as you read. You see more colourful pictures of your life and self and the glaring possibility of love, regardless.

Yes, God demands' SEXUAL PURITY from you; even when you yet go wrong, you have an ADVOCATE.

I'm rooting for you!