Relationship Red Flags: How to Identify and Avoid Dangerous Relationships Before Marriage

Many marriages don't fail because people didn't love each other, they fail because serious red flags were overlooked before the marriage.

This 80-minute pre-recorded video course is a powerful module from the “From Confusion to Clarity & Confidence” (CTOCC) programme, a Christian marital clarity course designed to help Christian singles make the right marriage choice with clarity, and confidence.

In this course, you will learn how to recognise relationship red flags early, exercise biblical discernment, avoid costly relationship mistakes, and make God-honouring decisions that lay the foundation for a healthy and lasting marriage.

The truth is simple: every red flag ignored during courtship often becomes a heavier burden in marriage. Love alone cannot change character flaws, heal unaddressed baggage, or eliminate destructive behaviours. It is far better to remain single than to marry the wrong person.

If you desire a God-centred marriage, learning to recognise and respond wisely to relationship red flags is one of the most important investments you can make.

What You Will Learn

In this course, you will learn:

• What relationship red flags are and why they matter.
• The different types of red flags every Christian single should recognise.
• Practical ways to identify red flags early in a relationship.
• Why many Christian singles ignore danger signs.
• How to evaluate yourself and identify areas for personal growth.
• How to make wise, prayerful relationship decisions through biblical discernment.
• Practical steps to confidently walk away from unhealthy relationships.

Course Objective

This course is designed to equip Christian singles with the wisdom, clarity, and practical discernment needed to identify red flags early, confidently walk away from unhealthy relationships, and say "yes" to God-aligned marriage choices.

Why This Course Matters

This course will help you:

• Prevent the pain and lifelong consequences of marrying the wrong person.
• Make relationship decisions with confidence rather than confusion.
• Build a strong biblical foundation for choosing a godly spouse.
• Recognise danger signs that often predict future marital problems.
• Increase your chances of building a healthy, thriving, God-honouring marriage.



Bonus Resources Included

Your enrolment also includes downloadable End-of-Course Reflection Guide/Checklist to help you apply what you learn.

These practical tools will help you reflect on the lessons, evaluate relationships wisely, and put biblical principles into action.

Your future marriage is too important to leave to emotions alone. Learn to discern wisely today so you can build a Godly marriage tomorrow.