Where Do People Go When They Have Relationship Problems?
Where Do People Go When They Have Relationship Problems?
Discover the Emotional Destinations We All Run to and How to Navigate Them Healthily.
A groundbreaking guide by PaGidi Expressions & Uche exploring the emotional realities of relationships and how to heal from them.
The Problem:
We all know the pain of relationship struggles—but few understand what happens inside ourselves when love hurts.
Most people:
- Pretend everything is fine
- Run to distractions
- Shut down emotionally
- Break down in silence
This book exposes these hidden patterns and provides practical guidance to navigate them.
What You Will Learn:
- Why people react the way they do in troubled relationships
- How to identify and break toxic emotional cycles
- Ways to heal from heartbreak and miscommunication
- How to build emotional awareness and resilience
- Practical steps to create healthier relationship habits
Who This Book is For:
- Singles seeking self-awareness
- Couples navigating conflict
- Anyone recovering from heartbreak
- Those seeking clarity in their emotional life
About the Authors:
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
PaGidi is a writer, lawyer, storyteller, and the visionary founder of PaGidi Expressions, a mental health movement dedicated to helping people navigate emotional struggles with honesty, vulnerability, and courage.
Known for his raw, introspective writing style and his ability to articulate emotions people often struggle to express, PaGidi has spent years creating safe spaces where individuals can heal, feel seen, and rediscover their voice.
With a background in law, leadership, and high-level organizational administration, PaGidi brings structure, clarity, and emotional intelligence into every conversation he leads. His own journey, marked by resilience, reinvention, and a consistent commitment to personal growth, has shaped his passion for emotional awareness and healthy relationships. Through PaGidi Expressions, he continues to influence numerous young adults across Nigeria by championing conversations that break silence, dismantle stigma, and inspire people to take ownership of their emotional wellbeing.
Where Do People Go When They Have Relationship Issues?, deepens his commitment to transforming how individuals navigate love, conflict, vulnerability, and emotional pain. He is also the author of Dearest Suicide, a gripping exploration of pain, hope, and the fight for survival, and My New Year Resolution, a raw and honest guide to rebuilding identity, discipline, and inner clarity.
ABOUT THE CO-AUTHOR
Uche A. is a dynamic creative force and mental wellness advocate, founding MYM, a groundbreaking therapy brand empowering individuals to navigate emotional challenges; IPC, a vibrant poetry brand celebrating raw expression; and IsraelU Concepts, his personal hub for his business affairs and growth.
As an accomplished author, video editor, eBook editor, social media manager, therapist, poet, graphics designer, and coach, Uche blends art with empathy to transform lives.
In WHERE DO PEOPLE GO WHEN THEY HAVE RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS?, Uche collaborates seamlessly with the main author, PaGidi, drawing from his rich personal encounters to share compelling stories, practical solutions, and essential relationship ethics. His contributions infuse the book with heartfelt insights, guiding readers toward healthier connections and self-discovery.
When he's not crafting verses or editing visions, Uche is coaching others to embrace vulnerability as their superpower.
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🔥 WARNING: This book contains emotionally intense, psychologically deep, and sensually charged scenes. It is rated 18+🔞 and highly addictive. 🥵
Testimonials/Social Proof:
The prologue is sensory, vivid, intimate, engaging, cinematic, and surprisingly relatable. The mix of desire and quiet tension hints that there’s so much these characters aren’t saying yet. From just this opening, you can already tell the story will dive into the kind of love, confusion, and chaos people face when relationships get real. It’s feels like the beginning of a plot that will be messy, real, and addictive.
Get ready! once you start, you may not put this book down. If you don’t want to get hooked, this is your warning.
Oluwayomi Ruth Taiwo - Creative Communications
Seems like an erotica but a story. I'm hooked but I want to read it again when relaxed
Daniel Fakunmoju - Product Designer
Honestly, I see a tense air filled with warmth and love that seems to have been missing for a while. Like I've known you but I've not felt you and now they want to devour each other and feel the person they once loved. But there is someone outside. Either from the past trying to slide into the present and their sense of annoyance could be either that this is not the first time this outside voice is coming or maybe it's just mere sex. But I just feel there is more to it.
Pemzino - Aspiring YouTuber, Student
From the first page, this book gives you that “I shouldn’t be here, but I absolutely want to be” feeling. The prologue is steamy, and painfully relatable, because who hasn’t had life interrupt them at the worst possible time? If you’ve ever asked yourself where people run to when love gets complicated, this book answers it with charm and honesty.
Abdulrahman Bello - Neuroscientist
The prologue is sensual, atmospheric, emotionally charged, and does a great job of building tension, anticipation, and interruption at the climax of desire — which ties perfectly to your book title: “Where Do People Go When They Have Relationship Problems?” The interruption by the phone call is powerful because it symbolises: unresolved issues, hidden truths, emotional interference, the reality outside lust.
This is a strong thematic choice.
Dasgwan Ribetshak - Banker/Seasonal writer
I love the romance, the suspense and also the detailed narration. I like that it doesn’t reveal too much, now I can’t wait to see how the story unfolds. If you love romance you would enjoy reading this.
Temi Talabi - Lawyer
This is an exhilarating piece of word art...Every word builds up curiosity to know what the next line entails. Perfectly describing the most prevalent 'modern' way of dealing with relationship issues. Truly can't wait for the full piece.
Jonah Joseph Imoh - D.R Copywriter/Fashion Designer
Reading this felt like I was in the room with them. I imagined myself being in that position and I felt their frustration when the phone rang, urrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh!
This piece is so good, I want more.
Kana Black – A Tailor
Toes curling, your imaginations and all your senses are completely drawn in. Now I want to know how they got here and what’s happening next. People can’t escape relationship problems, it’ll be thrilling to see more bits into where they go when it comes indeed, through PaGidi’s lenses.
Edesiri Precious - Nurse
Attention grabbing...This was exceptionally written with very detailed descriptions that will help you imagine and see things through the very mind of the author. If you are one who is imaginative and you enjoy reading pure art in these form of literature, then you will love this!
Akinyemi Akinsun - Multimedia Content Creator & Voiceover Artiste
From the very first lines, this prologue pulls you straight into an intimate moment between two people who clearly share a complicated history. The writing is vivid with emotions and desire woven tightly into every movement and breath.
What I love most about this opening is the tension, not just the physical kind, but the emotional pause created when the phone rings, breaking the moment and hinting at secrets, conflicts, and unanswered questions. It’s the kind of beginning that makes you want to turn the next page immediately, just to understand what binds these characters together and what might tear them apart. A captivating start.
Modesty Akiri - Writer & Literary Reviewer.
It is interesting yet intense!!! I love it
Humphrey Shayo - USA
This explores the dynamics of humans. The longing and sexual tension while there is someone else in the picture.
The question; where do people go when they have relationship problems is a valid one. I can’t wait to see the answers or possibly answers explored. It’s a need vital for people in relationships.
Weldone PaGidi on another write up important aspect on human dynamics.
Esther Noah - Content, Social/Product Manager
It's such a nice piece. The prologue is quite intriguing and captivating. It makes you want to know the what happens next.
Well, I think the writer should reveal the caller before the end of the prologue. But it's fine if it's his/her way of creating suspense in order to make their reader glued to the story. I must say the prologue is giving everything romance and it's promising as well.
By the way, thank you so much for the opportunity to be a part of those reviewing this great piece of art. I really appreciate and I don't take the honor for granted.
Janet Henry - Video editor
This is beautiful. Was reading it. And omo! My preek start to sound even as I dey very seriously ill. I imagined everything from the beginning to the end.
It is a very beautiful piece. Very beautiful. Top notched. But then, if you dey continue with a sentence, dont start with capital letters. I was reading it like was starting a new sentence when I see a capital letter at the beginning. It has to be a small letter. It flows better in the mind like that.
But kudos to you. You nailed it. You killed it also. It was a beautiful piece. Teach me how to think and write like you. Teach me to be very expressive Shifu Pagidi. Chi wan, shu wan, la wan. I comot cap for you bro, not my cap oo, but cap.
Kaptain Codedwaka
This question goes wide beyond my imagination. Coming from someone whom I know will dive through all depth to get his thoughts aligned.......
It's one thing to be in love, it's another to be tangled, it's another to be used and played, it's another to be abused, it's another to be ignored completely even when emotions are running deep. So I wonder, where do people go when they have relationship issues?
Today, I stand to declare that everyone relating with anyone will have relationship issues; our disposition towards the issue leads the way to where we eventually go to. Indeed, we need a voice, we need to know where to go when it's becoming the trend.
I look forward to this masterpiece from the Emotionally wired being himself, another Abami Eda in view.
Aletan Adenike Mrs - A Pastor, Administrator and Basic School Teacher.
I'd say it builds curiosity. It makes one wonder what led to that moment and what will happen next. The phone call also raises questions about who was calling and why he was reluctant to pick. It has a mix of intimacy, tension and emotion.
Fasunhanmi Dorcas Ayomiposi
This prologue grabs you immediately. The tension is real, and the writer knows exactly how to build the heat before cutting it short. You can literally feel the frustration when that phone rings. I’m already asking: Who is calling? I’m locked in.
Daniel Oreofe - Project Manager & Startup Operator
The prologue is engaging and emotionally charged. Even though it’s been a long time since I read a romance opening, this one made me curious about what would happen next. The chemistry between the characters was intense, and the sudden phone call created surprising tension. I found myself wondering: Who kept calling? Why did the call affect them so much? And what happened after? It’s a strong, intriguing introduction that connects well with the book’s title — “Where Do People Go When They Have Relationship Problems?” and sets the tone for an exploration of relationship complications.
Anjolaoluwa D. Sanwo-olu
This is really nice. The suspense, the eagerness to read the next line - it's really amazing.
But I think you should introduce the name of one of the characters in that particular scene - and add a sentence, or a line said by either of them, place it in quote - such that the readers are already in anticipation of what they'd like to expect from such character in the book.
I feel this way, I for one, would be willing to know more about that character, and the name will stick and might be the primary reason I want to read the book. Thanks.
Adesanya Junaid S. - Sales Executive (Modern Trade Supervisor for PZ Wilmar)
Your prologue has a strong sensual atmosphere, clear emotional tension, and a good hook with the phone call interrupting the moment. The writing paints the scene vividly and keeps the reader curious about the characters and their relationship problems—especially since the book title suggests deeper issues behind the intimacy.
Hafsat. A. YAHAYA – A graduate of Political Science
A sensual story of two persons that makes you yern for more of what is in the unseen. It is suspense filled and also a thriller to reckon with. I hope to find it really interesting till the end. I believe it is most definitely going to be a good read!
Peter Emmanuel Momoh - A youth Advocate, Ambassador of Peace and Tourism, A Humanitarian Worker.
This chapter didn’t just teach me, it checked me. The honesty was uncomfortable in the best way. The story pulled me in, but the lessons dragged me to face myself and reality. I realized how much we hide our immaturity behind “feelings”, how we expect premium treatment in relationships we haven’t even grown for.
It is a reminder that relationship doesn’t care about your feelings hit hard, because it’s true, most of us lose good people while chasing emotions that fade.
If this is just a chapter, the whole book will shake people’s interest. Thanks for this man.
Sagacious Tehilla – DR Copywirter, Coach
This is good. I give it my five star. But the part you used pidgins, I don’t think it’s necessary. Specifically on the part you wrote na you “SABI”, cuase some individuals might not understand wat it actually means.
Nnabu Daniel Chibuike – Graphics Designer
The title caught my attention because it asks a very real question people are usually too scared to face. When relationships get hard, and your favorite person becomes an object of offense, many people don’t actually know where to go or who to turn to. This title is an honest question. It makes you stop and think about your own habits, your hiding places, and the ways people try to handle pain in private. It prepares you for a book that will speak to real life struggles outside the pretense that they do not exist. The honesty is what makes it stand out.
Chidera Nweze – Mental Health Advocate.