WHY AM I STILL SINGLE?

WHY AM I STILL SINGLE

A live 90-minute relationship clarity session for smart, mature singles who are tired of guessing and ready to explore what may really be standing in the way of marriage.

Many singles already have an explanation for why they are still single, tthe problem is that explanation may be wrong.

If you are reading this, chances are you have already prayed about it, worked on yourself, waited.. and yet, the question is still there.

I'm not referring to the casual version you laugh off when people bring it up, I'm referring to the real question.

The one that shows up in your quiet moments when nobody is watching.

The one that surfaces when another wedding invitation arrives.

The one that shows up when it's raining and the weather chances to "weather for 2".

The one that appears when someone you know or someone you did not see coming gets engaged.

And you find yourself asking God privately: What exactly is going on?

By now you have probably heard the usual answers. Go out more. Lower your standards. Trust the process.

And maybe there is truth in some of that but if any of those answers had actually solved it, you would not still be here asking.

Here is what I have come to understand after years of working with singles who are serious, prayerful and genuinely confused. The reason many smart, mature people are still single is not the reason they think.

It is not that good people are scarce.

It is not that something is wrong with you

It is that you may have been making one of the most permanent decisions of your life using a lens you have never once stopped to examine.

And you cannot change what you cannot see. Which is why this session is not a formula or motivation talk.

It is an honest conversation — the kind most singles have never actually had.

Whatever your story is, one thing is true. You deserve more than generic answers and this session was created to help you explore the question more honestly than you may have ever done before.

Not to tell you who to marry or promise you a spouse, but to help you identify the assumptions, fears, expectations and decision-making patterns that may be influencing your relationship journey more than you realise.

THIS SESSION IS FOR YOU IF:

✔ You genuinely desire marriage but feel confused about why nothing seems to be moving forward.

✔ You have met people before but struggled to know whether to move closer or walk away.

✔ You are tired of second-guessing yourself and wondering if you're missing something important.

✔ You sometimes question whether you're waiting on God's guidance or avoiding a decision because you're afraid of getting it wrong.

✔ You have never really had serious options and you wonder whether there's something you're not seeing.

✔ You are tired of generic relationship advice and ready for a more honest conversation.

DURING THIS SESSION WE WILL EXPLORE:

✔ Why the reason you are still single is probably not the reason you think and what the real reason might reveal about you.

✔ How to tell the difference between waiting on God and hiding behind the wait, and why that distinction changes everything.

✔ What is actually happening when something feels off about a person and why your gut may not be telling you what you think it is.

✔ What you have been valuing in a potential spouse that may be working against you and what actually predicts a lasting marriage.

✔ How the framework you have been using to evaluate people was formed and whether it was ever designed for a decision this permanent.

WHAT YOU WILL LEAVE WITH:

✔ A clearer picture of what has actually been running your relationship decisions not the story you have been telling yourself, but what is underneath it.

✔ The ability to finally name what you have been feeling in your relationship situations and understand what those feelings are actually telling you.

✔ An honest answer to at least one question you came in with one you may have been carrying for longer than you realise.

✔ A different way of looking at the people and situations you have been evaluating one that may make you see your past and your future very differently.

✔ Permission to stop guessing and a clearer sense of what your next honest step actually looks like.

About Your Host

My name is Fejiro Adaka, also known as MrzSparkles.

I am a Family Systems Practitioner, Emotional Intelligence Coach, Marriage Counsellor and a Master Practitioner of NLP who has spent almost a decade working with singles, engaged couples and married couples across Nigeria and the diaspora.

Through this work, and through my own marriage of over 12 years — I have come to understand something most singles are never told.

The challenge is not always a lack of opportunities or a lack of readiness. Sometimes the challenge is that people are making life-changing relationship decisions through lenses they have never consciously examined.

My work in these 90minutes is to help you identify those lenses so you can make wiser decisions moving forward.

WHAT OTHERS HAVE SAID

"I almost ended a three-year relationship because I thought I had seen a red flag. Three months later, I realised what I thought was a red flag was actually my own wound showing up. That one conversation changed how I saw the relationship."

Mrs Grace O.

The cost of confusion is not always obvious in the moment.

Sometimes it looks like years spent waiting.

Sometimes it looks like walking away from someone you should have explored further.

Sometimes it looks like staying stuck because you keep asking the wrong question.

Clarity doesn't guarantee marriage, but confusion almost always comes at a cost.

YOUR INVESTMENT— ₦19,999

Your registration includes:

✔ Live 90-Minute Session

✔ 3months replay access

ONE LAST QUESTION

What if the reason you're still single isn't the reason you've been telling yourself?

You have probably asked this question many times. Maybe it's time to stop asking it alone. Maybe it's time to explore it with someone who can help you see what you may not be seeing.

Reserve Your Seat Today Join me for an honest conversation. One that may change the way you think about your relationship journey for years to come.

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