ABOUT THE BOOK

This book is for Parents, Guardians, Teenagers, Children, Teachers, School Owners and all stakeholders in child-raising business. 

DESCRIPTION OF THE BOOK, TEENAGERS’ DILEMMA

For some years now, negative news about teenagers have pervaded the social and print media. The story was in the News several months ago, about a young boy in Junior Secondary Class One, who poured acid inside his co-student’s water bottle. Why? Obsession! He desired to be the overall best student in the school; but from all indications, as at the third term, it was clear that his co-student, a girl, would win the award. Thank God he mentioned it to another student, who quickly informed the Teacher, and subsequently averted the terrible problem it would have caused the girl. What kind of adult would that boy grow to become? This is not limited to a school, state or country as there are worst cases all over the world.

All occurrences like the story shared above, clearly shows one thing – There is need to pay serious attention to TEENAGERS!.

This is the basis for the birthing of this Book/Manual. Using the story-telling method, the Author creatively and illustratively explains how a Teenager can successfully transition into adulthood; analyzing few of the encumbrances to such transition as listed below:

(1) IDENTITY CRISIS;

(2) BULLYING; 

(3) PEER PRESSURE;

(4) DEVELOPING GOOD CHARACTERS AND HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS;

(5) MAKING GOOD CHOICES; AND

(6) BECOMING GRITTY

This eye-opening book did not just explain the problems and leave the readers wondering how to handle such situations; it also contains a Counsellor’s Corner and Parents’ Section; where there are thorough discussions on how to successfully handle such issues.

97% of adults have struggled as teenagers, and still struggling as parents, feeling weak, incompetent and frustrated when handling situations Why? Lack of adequate knowledge.

The seemingly laborious tasks have been thoroughly thrashed in this result-getting book. It’s not just for raising teenagers, but also adolescents, even as young as toddlers.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

1) As a parent, why do I need this book?

Both experienced and inexperienced parents need to know and continue to update themselves about teenagers’ behaviours and how they react to issues. It’s important for you to know that Teenagers are not easily predictable, and require you being continuously well informed and knowledgeable about the WHATs and HOW-TOs of handling them. The information contained in this book is insightful and can equip you with such knowledge.

2) I’m only a prospective teenager, why do I need to know about how to handle some issues as a Teenager?

Wisdom demands that, when you acquaint yourself with information on how to handle, especially your immediate next level in life, you will successfully scale through that level and move faster than you would have been if you weren’t armed with such valuable information. Read Teenagers’ Dilemma and be properly equipped.

3) Is it not enough to pray and ask God to lead us in raising our Teenagers?

Prayer is important, because all parents are earthly guardians. God is our Creator and Heavenly Father. However, God’s instruction is that parents should train up their children in the way they should go, and when they grow, they will not depart from such ways. A wise man once said: "the faith that makes God to be responsible for all the happenings in your life is an irresponsible faith". It’s necessary to take parenting responsibilities. So, always leverage on knowledge shared by experienced and knowledgeable people, in order to know how to successfully raise your Teenagers. Doing this will bring everlasting peace to you, and you will enjoy the rewards of obeying God.

4) As a Teenager, is it not better for me to always act on my initiative in resolving issues?

While it is important for Teenagers to handle issues creatively and using your initiative, it is important for you to know that there is nothing new under the heaven. What you are currently experiencing has been encountered by certain people in the past, and they scaled through successfully. Therefore, it is necessary to leverage on knowledge shared by experienced and knowledgeable people. Reading a book like Teenagers’ Dilemmas will open your eyes to such knowledge.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

The Author: Mrs. Abolaji-Israel

Olanike Abolaji-Israel is an experienced innovative writer, seasoned administrator and Counsellor. She is also involved in research, especially discovering more human behavioural activities. As a Children and Teens Minister, she is well-informed about the WHATs and WHYs of Teenagers' behaviours. She currently administers Productive Parents and Relationship groups on WhatsApp and Facebook.

She is an author of four story books and some Office Management titles, which promotes self-improvement for children, teenagers, employees, employers, etc. She is a Human Resource Practitioner, specializing in all aspects of Human Relations. She loves brainstorming, travelling and ensuring children growth and development.

Her printed and online articles have been a great source of self-improvement for her readers, cutting across different ages and status. Her niche includes: Lifestyle, Parenting, Relationship and Self-development. Her presentations have also boosted several training programmes for her clients. She is a regular contributor on Quora and some social media groups.

“You have great passion for writing. You are able to package and project the intentions of people where they can’t really express themselves. You are versatile and full of ideas. You are a good encourager, able to help people actualize their dreams” – EVANGELIST MRS. AYENI – MATRON AND AUTHOR

“Mrs. Nike Abolaji-Israel is a prolific writer. She is a good communicator, a committed, diligent and versatile person. She pursues issues to a logical conclusion without cutting corners. She is nouvelle, creative and innovative in her approach. I recommend her to as many as love great things” – MRS OLUFUNKE ADAGUNODO (MNIM)

COMMENT ON TEENAGERS' DILEMMAS 

Teenagers Dilemmas is not just a book but a guide that helps parents define colorful strategies and systems that can be implemented successfully, to tackle problems that teenagers face at different phases of their lives. - SANMI DAVID ISRAEL

Through her books and other activities, Mrs. Olanike Abolaji-Israel has been sowing good seeds into people's lives since 2013. She is a great Writer, Author and Mentor. This makes all her books outstanding. You can't read her books and not take responsibility for your greatness in life. She writes to guide, not just to instruct. God bless her. - PASTOR OLUWASEUN PAUL