
The Serious Talk Checklist: A Guide to Discussions Before Saying “I Do”
By Freda Idahosa Ajayi
💍 You’ve prayed. You’re hopeful. You’re ready.
But before you say “I do”, have the conversations that matter most.
This heartfelt, Christ-centered guide walks couples through 12 essential topics to discuss before marriage—covering faith, purpose, finances, emotional maturity, family vision, healing, sex, communication, and more.
It’s not about being perfect—it’s about being prepared.
✅ Ideal for Christian couples ready for marriage
✅ Great for premarital conversations, counseling, or mentorship settings
✅ Filled with clear, thoughtful questions to guide godly discussions
📖 Rooted in Scripture. Focused on alignment.
💡 Don’t build a marriage on assumptions. Build it on understanding.