
When I wanted to get married, I fantasised about what my marriage would be like.
I thought I would be the sole director and decider in my marriage, as the African man that I am.
I loved my wife, wholeheartedly. But I was very unprepared for the complex dynamics of marriage.
My marriage eventually collapsed before my very eyes. It was like a movie to me. I couldn't believe it.
But even though my marriage collapsed I learnt valuable lessons from my union. Lessons that will save many people's marriages from collapsing, as mine did.
I see many marriages today struggle because the people involved lack understanding. Or maybe, 1 party has understanding and the other doesn't.
My book "Why most marriages fail - 11 lessons from my heartbreaking experience" will help bring that understanding to everyone who needs it.
This is a book you need to get, whether single or married.
In it, you'll see 11 lessons I learnt from my heartbreaking experience.