The Real You: Who You Are and How to Live With Others Who Are Not Like You

The Real You: Who You Are and How to Live with Others Who Are Not Like You by Njideka Ijezie

Have you ever wondered why you react the way you do? Or why some people are so easy to get along with, while others seem to push every one of your buttons? The Real You helps you understand why. It uses the four temperaments (Sanguine, Choleric, Melancholy and Phlegmatic) to show you who you are, why you act the way you do, and how to live well with people who are nothing like you. It is written in plain, enjoyable language and grounded in biblical truth.

Inside, you will:

• Discover the difference between temperament (the real you) and personality (the dress you put on over it)
• Learn the strengths, weaknesses and “dark sides” of each of the four temperaments
• Explore the ten mixed temperaments, or blends, and find where you fit
• Understand how temperament shapes your relationships, marriage, work and spiritual life
• Learn practical ways to accept, encourage and communicate with people of other temperaments
• Get honest answers to common questions, such as “Can I change my personality?” and “Why do opposites attract?”

This book is for you if:

• You want to know yourself better and grow from there
• You are tired of trying to change the people around you
• You want healthier relationships with your spouse, children, friends, colleagues or church family
• You are a leader, counsellor, teacher or parent who works with different kinds of people

“God did not make us all alike. Each one of us is unique.” Understanding that is the first step to living at peace with yourself and with others.

Format: PDF e-book, 127 pages. It is easy to read on your phone, tablet or computer.