MY LOVELIFT: 40 Days of Wisdom for Love and Marriage

A 40-Day Devotional on Relationship

By Dr. Emeka Ogbuju

MY LOVELIFT is a carefully crafted 40-day devotional designed to strengthen relationships, heal marriages, and prepare singles for godly unions. Drawing from Scripture, pastoral experience, and years of marriage mentoring across churches and campuses, Dr. Ogbuju presents timeless truths that address the real issues couples face today - communication, forgiveness, finances, intimacy, conflict, courtship, and spiritual alignment. It shows that love is more than a feeling; it is a journey that must be lifted, nurtured, and sustained by wisdom.

Each day offers practical insight and biblical clarity, and guides you to replace emotional reactions with godly wisdom, selfishness with honor, and confusion with purpose. From learning the power of gentle answers and forgiveness, to navigating values, sexual purity, and divine order in the home, this devotional provides a balanced and honest approach to love as God designed it.

Whether you are single, engaged, newly married, or seasoned in marriage, MY LOVELIFT will challenge your heart, renew your perspective, and help you build relationships that last.

This book is not just about loving better; it is about loving wisely, loving faithfully, and finishing well.

It is ideal for couples and married partners, singles preparing for marriage, marriage mentoring groups, church relationship classes, and personal devotion and reflection.

Your relationship will rise to God’s standard by using this book. You will have a strong marriage, and it shall be built on truth, not emotions, using this book.

About the Author

Rev. Dr. Emeka Ogbuju is a distinguished researcher, passionate teacher, and ordained evangelist whose work bridges cutting-edge technology, education, and the Christian faith.

He is an Associate Professor of Computer Science and a widely travelled scholar whose career is marked by international grants, scholarships, and fellowships, Beyond academia, Rev. Dr. Ogbuju is the Rector of the International Bible Life School of Theology, where he is deeply committed to ministerial education, pastoral care, and apostolic community impact. His leadership emphasizes sound doctrine, spiritual formation, and practical Christian living.

He is a seasoned conference speaker and the author of several impactful books through which he offers timeless wisdom on faith, family, marriage, and purposeful living.

He is happily married to his lovely wife, Mrs. Nkeiruka Mercy, a professional university administrator, and they’re blessed with four children.